Reconnecting with your first love

"What if you contacted your first real love again?"

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That first recognition over the phone gives you proper goosebumps. Without all that youthful drama, you can finally see what was truly between you. Sometimes a story closes more beautifully than it began.

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Three first steps

1Reflect first on your motivation and expectations before searching
2Search for them carefully and write a respectful, open letter
3Discuss your feelings afterwards with therapist or confidant, regardless of outcome

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